Husband wore 60-year-old wedding suit to help dementia-suffering wife

  • Malcolm Cousins, 80, put on the same suit he wore on his wedding day
  • Wanted to celebrate 60th wedding anniversary with his wife in care home
  • Hoped to jog his wife’s memory – and she recognised the suit instantly 
  • Pair met aged 7 and after playing in the street, ‘knew’ they’d be together 

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A devoted husband wore his 60-year-old wedding suit to celebrate his diamond anniversary in the hope of bringing back memories for his dementia-suffering wife.

Malcolm Cousins was worried his wife June’s illness would stop her from remembering the happy day. However, not only did his suit still fit perfectly, but June recognised the outfit instantly.

The pair started dating at the age of 15, having met at the tender age of just seven years old – when they already ‘knew they’d be together’.

Mr Cousins donned the same suit he wore on his wedding day - and to his delight, his wife June recognised it instantly

Mr Cousins donned the same suit he wore on his wedding day – and to his delight, his wife June recognised it instantly

The pair met in Hull when they were seven years old. They went on to get married in 1956 (pictured) and celebrated their diamond wedding anniversary this week

The pair met in Hull when they were seven years old. They went on to get married in 1956 (pictured) and celebrated their diamond wedding anniversary this week

On the 60th anniversary of their wedding on February 25, Mr Cousins donned his decades-old suit in the hope of jogging June’s memory.

‘The main reason I wore the suit was to jog June’s memory,’ Mr Cousins said. ‘And she recognised it straight away, which was fantastic.

‘I don’t really know why I kept it, it just seems to have followed me around all these years from house to house.’

They celebrated the milestone with a party at Sutton Village Care Home in Hull with cake and champagne.

The couple, both 80, met when they were just seven years old in their hometown of Hull, East Yorkshire.

‘When we started playing in the street, we already knew we would be together,’ Mr Cousins said.

The secret to a long and happy marriage: Mr Cousins has advised young couples to 'stick it out' and 'work at the relationship'

The secret to a long and happy marriage: Mr Cousins has advised young couples to ‘stick it out’ and ‘work at the relationship’

They began dating when they were 15 years old, and had a low-key wedding ceremony in 1956 at a register office in Hull.

‘We didn’t even really have a do afterwards,’ Mr Cousins said. ‘We certainly didn’t have a honeymoon and travel round the world like they do these days.’

To mark their 60th anniversary, the couple also received a special message of congratulations from the Queen.

‘It was such a nice thing to get and it made our day,’ Mr Cousins said.

Touching photographs captured the moment Malcolm and June Cousins celebrated their diamond wedding anniversary 

Touching photographs captured the moment Malcolm and June Cousins celebrated their diamond wedding anniversary 

Mr Cousins worked as a sugar boiler for a sweet makers in Hull, which created humbugs, candy sticks and toffees.

After a few years he moved into the building trade, where he helped construct a number of Hull’s schools.

Mrs Cousins worked as a cleaner but also had her hands full bringing up five sons and two daughters.

As well as seven children, the couple also have 15 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren.

The care home made sure it was a special day for the pair.

Manager Yvonne Moses said: ‘They have had champagne and cake, along with entertainment. We are sure they have had a great day.

‘We have also been celebrating a birthday, so we had quite a party.’

And Mr Cousins offered his tip for a long and happy marriage: ‘The secret is to both give a little rather than resist, and stick it out.

‘You have to work it out together.

‘My advice to young couples today is just to stick it out.

‘We all have our arguments, but you have to work at the relationship.’ 

The couple enjoyed a party at the Hull care home, with champagne, cake and entertainment. They also received a congratulatory card from the Queen

The couple enjoyed a party at the Hull care home, with champagne, cake and entertainment. They also received a congratulatory card from the Queen


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