When honeymoon disagreement points to bigger relationship questions

Meanwhile, the stuff that really matters goes unspoken, for many reasons. Wanda listed a lot of the big stuff, and yeah, it’s all stressful to think about, much less talk about and negotiate with someone else. These conversations can also be painful, embarrassing, annoying and scary. What if someone gets upset? What if you can’t find middle ground? What if we break the deal-breakers?